The Friend You Can’t Tell Everything To

Friendship is built on trust, but have you ever had that one friend you just can’t tell everything to? Not because they’re a bad person, but because something inside you holds back. You enjoy their company, and you share laughter and good times, but when it comes to opening up about your deepest thoughts, something stops you.

People say true friendship is about being open, being yourself, and feeling accepted. And while that may be true, friendships come in different forms. Some friends know every part of you—the good, the bad, and everything in between—without judgment. Others are great for fun moments and lighthearted conversations, but when things get too deep, they may not be the ones to confide in. And that’s okay.

But what about the friends who seem to care—until it’s your turn to be heard? The ones you’ve supported, listened to, and been there for, yet when you try to open up, they change the subject, dismiss your feelings, or act as if your struggles don’t matter. It’s a moment of realization: not every friendship is as mutual as it seems.

The truth is, that not all friendships are balanced. Some people enjoy your presence but aren’t willing to carry your burdens the way you carry theirs. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re bad friends—just that their role in your life is different. While that understanding can sting, it also helps you learn where to place your trust.

Over time, we discover who we can be vulnerable with and who we can’t. That doesn’t make a friendship meaningless; it simply means each person plays a different role. Some friends are there for the fun times, some for the difficult ones, and some, unfortunately, only when it’s convenient for them.

Brioche from Heaven

At the end of the day, friendship isn’t about forcing a connection—it’s about finding the people who truly see you, who listen as much as they speak, and who care in the way you do. And if you have even one friend like that, you’re already fortunate.

On the side...

While searching for a quiet spot to write, I stumbled upon the cutest little place near BTS Chong Nonsi—Brioche from Heaven. If you love pastries, this place is a must-visit. I ended up going twice because I wanted to try everything! True to its name, they serve the most heavenly brioches in a variety of flavors. There’s something comforting about finding a cozy café where you can sit, reflect, and enjoy something simple yet delightful—like a warm, buttery brioche.

Comments

"Somewhere Between the Silence and the Love"

Blog post: We Were Never Really Alone, a reflection on family love and belonging Family & Personal Growth We Were Never Really Alone When you realize the love you were searching for was right at home all along. Personal Essays · 4 min read Have you ever felt alone in a room full of people who are supposed to be your safe place? It happens more than we admit. And sometimes, that room is home. There are moments when family can feel like the most distant thing in the world. The silence between everyone feels heavy. Responsibilities pile up and shift around. People go about their days without really checking in. And slowly, without meaning to, we start to believe something that hurts: that we don't matter to them the way they matter to us. No matter how much we try to shake it off, the feeling stays. The feeling of being on the outside, looking in at a family that doesn't seem to have space for us. And the longer ...

Hate Is Not the Opposite of Love, It’s Indifference

Time really flies, doesn’t it? A lot has happened, and I’ve learned a few things along the way. This one comes from the heart. Have you ever felt hurt by someone who never said sorry? Maybe they forgot what they did, or maybe they just didn’t care enough to notice. You try to move on, but part of you still remembers the pain. You wonder if you should forgive them, even if they never asked for it. If you’ve ever felt that way, this is for you. Hate Is Not the Opposite of Love; It’s Indifference People often think that hate is the opposite of love, but it’s not. When you hate someone, it means you still care in some way. You still feel something when you think about them. The real opposite of love is indifference, when you simply stop caring at all. That’s when your heart has truly moved on. We’ve all experienced moments when someone we care about hurts us. It could be a friend, a parent, a boyfriend or girlfriend, or even someone we trusted deeply. Sometimes they say or do thing...

fo_sho_bro_bkk | the_carnival_bar_bkk

Discovering a Hidden Gem: The Cafe/Carnival Bar Near BTS Bang Na This cafe/carnival bar near BTS Bang Na is one of my favorite places. I've visited many times and have never been disappointed. The coffee and food are fantastic, and the place has its own unique charm. From the outside, it looks like a regular house, which makes it a bit tricky to find. The first time I went with friends, we didn't recognize it right away. But once we stepped inside, it felt like we had entered a different world, or even a different country. The atmosphere was enchanting and made me dream of opening my own cafe someday. At first, I was hesitant to take pictures and stay longer because there were a lot of people. But the cafe is so Instagrammable, and the prices are very reasonable. It's a perfect spot for friends to hang out and even for dates. When you enter, you'll first pass through the cafe area. If you're looking for a more private setting, you can go further inside where the car...

SamWentBroke

Search This Blog